Become an au pair

Cultural exchange and learning German are important reasons — but not the only ones. As an au pair you grow in everyday family life, gain independence, and make friends worldwide.

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Three strong reasons for an au pair year

You become part of a family, experience everyday life on the ground, and grow personally — with support from My Family Au Pair.

Live & travel abroad

You experience culture best in everyday life: as part of the family, with responsibility for the children. From your new home base you plan day trips in the country and travel across Europe.

Support throughout the year

With My Family Au Pair you have a network at your side: a suitable host family, tips for everyday life and free time, and support when questions or conflicts arise.

Growth & new skills

You become more independent, improve your German, and take on meaningful tasks. When you return home you bring experience, confidence, and friendships from all over the world.

Your life as an au pair

As an au pair you are a friend, a trusted person, and an extended family member. Everyday life is varied — with clear tasks and enough room for language, free time, and new friends.

Cooking & snacks

Prepare simple meals and snacks for the children and the family.

Helping hand

Light housework and small errands that ease family life.

Learning support

Homework, reading aloud, crafts — support children while they learn and play.

Play & share culture

Laugh, play, and share your culture with the children — a little every day.

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Frequently asked questions

Is au pair only cultural exchange?

Cultural exchange and language are central — plus independence, responsibility, travel, and a real family year with clear framework conditions.

Will I be supported during the year?

Yes. My Family Au Pair supports you and your host family before, during, and after arrival — with orientation, tips, and help when questions or conflicts arise.

How do I apply?

Easiest via the My Family Au Pair App or the application page. We review your application personally and guide you step by step.

Ready for your au pair year?

Learn more about the program in Germany — or start your application right away.

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From your first question to everyday family life — we’re here for you.

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